U Up?

by Betches.com

U Up?
  • Language: eng
  • Episodes: 16
  • Last: 28 Feb 2018
In this modern dating podcast presented by Betches Media, Jordana Abraham of Betches and Jared Freid discuss their take on modern dating issues ranging from apps to hook ups to relationships. What makes something a red flag versus a dealbreaker in the world we currently live in. They're here to help you not die alone.

Episodes (16)

  • How Many Dates Should You Wait Before Adding Someone On Instagram?
    How Many Dates Should You Wait Before Adding Someone On Instagram?
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    Published: 28 Feb 2018 Duration: 01:03:54
    Jared has an awkward hook up after masturbating 700 times. A listener tells the story of watching a gay porn and hearing familiar music, namely the 'U Up' theme song. Another fan asks when the right time to add a dating partner on social me... Read more →
    Jared has an awkward hook up after masturbating 700 times. A listener tells the story of watching a gay porn and hearing familiar music, namely the 'U Up' theme song. Another fan asks when the right time to add a dating partner on social me... Read more →

  • How to Plan a Date Without Looking Desperate
    How to Plan a Date Without Looking Desperate
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    Published: 21 Feb 2018 Duration: 51:03
    Jordana and Jared start off talking about the heart DM on Instagram (is it sincere?). Then they take a letter from a compulsive planner who is curious how far ahead it's appropriate to plan in a dating context. After a listener asks what he... Read more →
    Jordana and Jared start off talking about the heart DM on Instagram (is it sincere?). Then they take a letter from a compulsive planner who is curious how far ahead it's appropriate to plan in a dating context. After a listener asks what he... Read more →

  • Stop Instagram Stalking Your Exes with Whitney Cummings
    Stop Instagram Stalking Your Exes with Whitney Cummings
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    Published: 14 Feb 2018 Duration: 01:20:50
    After talking about various verbal dealbreakers such as “golly” and “oh my gosh,” Jordana and Jared take a letter from a listener asking how to act if she runs into a 25-year-old college student after he ghosted her. They talk about Instag... Read more →
    After talking about various verbal dealbreakers such as “golly” and “oh my gosh,” Jordana and Jared take a letter from a listener asking how to act if she runs into a 25-year-old college student after he ghosted her. They talk about Instag... Read more →

  • Do Women Have More to Gain From Marriage Than Men?
    Do Women Have More to Gain From Marriage Than Men?
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    Published: 7 Feb 2018 Duration: 58:49
    Jared and Jordana talk about how to handle Valentine’s Day as a single person, having reasonable standards, and what men and women have to gain from marriage. After, they discuss people who are resistant to “the apps.” Do you live in the No... Read more →
    Jared and Jordana talk about how to handle Valentine’s Day as a single person, having reasonable standards, and what men and women have to gain from marriage. After, they discuss people who are resistant to “the apps.” Do you live in the No... Read more →

  • Is It OK to Talk About Your Ex?
    Is It OK to Talk About Your Ex?
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    Published: 1 Feb 2018 Duration: 59:46
    Jordana and Jared have a fascinating discussion about exes, matchmaking, and being nosy about people's relationships. They take two questions posed by listeners. The first comes from a distressed lover scorned by someone who randomly starte... Read more →
    Jordana and Jared have a fascinating discussion about exes, matchmaking, and being nosy about people's relationships. They take two questions posed by listeners. The first comes from a distressed lover scorned by someone who randomly starte... Read more →

  • How Much Porn is Too Much Porn?
    How Much Porn is Too Much Porn?
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    Published: 25 Jan 2018 Duration: 01:07:21
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss micro-cheating and whether or not men and women can really be just friends. They answer questions from a listener whose boyfriend turns into a caveman when he gets angry and another listener who is offend... Read more →
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss micro-cheating and whether or not men and women can really be just friends. They answer questions from a listener whose boyfriend turns into a caveman when he gets angry and another listener who is offend... Read more →

  • If You’re Not On His Instagram It’s Not Official
    If You’re Not On His Instagram It’s Not Official
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    Published: 18 Jan 2018 Duration: 01:08:35
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss how long you should wait before putting the person you’re dating on social media. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know if she should stop having sex with a guy because he’s a Trump supp... Read more →
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss how long you should wait before putting the person you’re dating on social media. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know if she should stop having sex with a guy because he’s a Trump supp... Read more →

  • How Many Drinks Should I Have On A Date?
    How Many Drinks Should I Have On A Date?
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    Published: 11 Jan 2018 Duration: 01:04:47
    This week Jared and Jordana discuss if it’s possible to not drink while dating. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know why the guy she slept with texts her all day even though he lives in in another state. They also respond... Read more →
    This week Jared and Jordana discuss if it’s possible to not drink while dating. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know why the guy she slept with texts her all day even though he lives in in another state. They also respond... Read more →

  • What’s The Best Way To Dump Someone?
    What’s The Best Way To Dump Someone?
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    Published: 4 Jan 2018 Duration: 57:37
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss why a girl might not have sex with a guy she lets sleep over. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know why guys Snapchat her more than they text her and a guy who wants to know if it’s okay... Read more →
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss why a girl might not have sex with a guy she lets sleep over. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know why guys Snapchat her more than they text her and a guy who wants to know if it’s okay... Read more →

  • Should You Have ‘The Talk’? The Great Debate
    Should You Have ‘The Talk’? The Great Debate
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    Published: 28 Dec 2017 Duration: 01:02:32
    This week Jared and Jordana discuss why guys like Instagram Models’ photos. They answer questions from a girl who’s anxious she won’t get a New Years kiss and other listeners wondering when an appropriate time to initiate exclusivity is. Th... Read more →
    This week Jared and Jordana discuss why guys like Instagram Models’ photos. They answer questions from a girl who’s anxious she won’t get a New Years kiss and other listeners wondering when an appropriate time to initiate exclusivity is. Th... Read more →

  • Blowjobs Are a Selfless Act
    Blowjobs Are a Selfless Act
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    Published: 21 Dec 2017 Duration: 57:52
    This week Jordana and Jared talk about what girls and guys think of oral sex. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know how many times is normal for a guy to not be able to get it up and a male listener who is ashamed of his l... Read more →
    This week Jordana and Jared talk about what girls and guys think of oral sex. They answer questions from a listener who wants to know how many times is normal for a guy to not be able to get it up and a male listener who is ashamed of his l... Read more →

  • Don’t Text for A Specific Response
    Don’t Text for A Specific Response
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    Published: 14 Dec 2017 Duration: 54:00
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss lingerie and who should text first after a first date. They answer questions from a listener trying to move on from a 10 month relationship and another one who has an issue with guys no longer being inter... Read more →
    This week Jordana and Jared discuss lingerie and who should text first after a first date. They answer questions from a listener trying to move on from a 10 month relationship and another one who has an issue with guys no longer being inter... Read more →

  • Girls Trying Not To Be Crazy Is What’s Gotten Guys Laid for Centuries
    Girls Trying Not To Be Crazy Is What’s Gotten Guys Laid for Centuries
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    Published: 7 Dec 2017 Duration: 53:46
    Jared and Jordana discuss who should pay on dates, and what you “owe" someone you’re having sex with in terms of honesty. They answer a listener’s question who wants to know what it means when a guy who ghosted you keeps liking your Instagr... Read more →
    Jared and Jordana discuss who should pay on dates, and what you “owe" someone you’re having sex with in terms of honesty. They answer a listener’s question who wants to know what it means when a guy who ghosted you keeps liking your Instagr... Read more →

  • Is it ever okay to fake an orgasm?
    Is it ever okay to fake an orgasm?
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    Published: 30 Nov 2017 Duration: 42:05
    Jared and Jordana discuss why girls fake orgasms and what the best solution is to get them to stop. They answer questions from a male listener who doesn’t want a relationship but finds himself doing “relationshipy” things with girls he’s ho... Read more →
    Jared and Jordana discuss why girls fake orgasms and what the best solution is to get them to stop. They answer questions from a male listener who doesn’t want a relationship but finds himself doing “relationshipy” things with girls he’s ho... Read more →

  • You're Not Better Than The App
    You're Not Better Than The App
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    Published: 23 Nov 2017 Duration: 58:20
    Jared and Jordana discuss how to be put yourself out there on dating apps and whether or not a guy can ever truly be 'not in the mood.' The give advice about how to ask a guy out in a low key way and how to let go of your boyfriend's transg... Read more →
    Jared and Jordana discuss how to be put yourself out there on dating apps and whether or not a guy can ever truly be 'not in the mood.' The give advice about how to ask a guy out in a low key way and how to let go of your boyfriend's transg... Read more →

  • Guys Want a Girl That Their Dad Would Want to Have Sex With
    Guys Want a Girl That Their Dad Would Want to Have Sex With
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    Published: 15 Nov 2017 Duration: 53:21
    In their premiere dating podcast, Jared and The Betches discuss how your dating app profile picture can affect what kind of guys or girls you attract and what types of photos you should avoid. They answer questions from a listener who wonde... Read more →
    In their premiere dating podcast, Jared and The Betches discuss how your dating app profile picture can affect what kind of guys or girls you attract and what types of photos you should avoid. They answer questions from a listener who wonde... Read more →